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How to Ace the First Date Part 2 (For Men)

Every woman is looking for Prince Charming.  From day one it=2 0was engrained into our brains that someday our prince will come and sweep us off our feet.  Although we have been sucked into what seems like a more harsh reality we are secretly still waiting for him.  In other words you need to come to her door or wait in the lobby when picking her up, open and close the car door for her, and hold the door in any entrance way for her.  Yes, be gallant; go all out-not just on the first date, but from now on.  Be polite, be chivalrous, and be her Prince Charming for the night.

Make your lady feel special three times throughout the date.  You want her to know you are interested but you don't want over kill.  Keep in mind; she probably spent one to two hours getting ready to be attractive for you, so in the first few moments of the date it is vital to let her know that she looks beautiful.  At some point in the middle of the date compliment her best physical feature. For example you can say "You have striking eyes".  At the end of the date tell her that she was a lot of fun to be with and you enjoyed your time together.  This will show her that you are though tful and interested.

It is a good idea to touch her numerous times throughout the date.  The key to this is to be subtle about it. Place your hand gently on the small of her back or on her shoulder that is opposite you when the time is right.  If you are walking side by side at any moment try holding her hand.  If your date consists of a physical activity such as playing pool or bowling, show her a trick you know, place her body in the right position.  The point is to keep the touching restrained; don't grope, too much heavy handling will turn her off.

Saturday, November 15, 2008

 

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